Tuesday

POUTY LIPS, FULLER HIPS, AND OTHER FALLACY'S

The other day when I was shopping, my friend tried to get me to buy some of that lip plumping ointment which is supposed to give you that pouty look. Sorry, I don't need any help in that department. Not that I pout much at all, but, my face is tough enough looking without it looking pouty too... Ha!

It amazes me how much everyone wants to look so hot or like movie actors and actresses. Have you seen some of the shots of certain actresses or singers without their beauty crew after effect? Why not develop what you have and forget about conforming to what everyone else is doing?

I have always had my own sense of style and personality. I never felt the need to try to look like anyone else, as I couldn't anyway, as I certainly do not look like anyone. Some of the women I would like to look like are much darker than I am so, there would be no way for me to come close anyway. Therefore, I have always just tried to put my own best forward, and, if it doesn't measure up, so be it, I will survive...

It won't be long, I am sure, before they have applicable faces to wear, which after a night out, you just peel off. I don't doubt it one bit... What I want to know is, those women who wear a wig, false breasts, enhanced butts, and other such, what do they do if they find a guy they like? Do they feel any embarrassment at all when the time comes to disrobe? Do they feel anything when they have cheated the guy out of the real thing? I just don't get it, and, from fake head to toe accessories are selling at an all time high, so, obviously women are fluffing the goods... It is too funny to think about... "Ummmm, could you excuse me for a while, I have to go and take off all my fake body parts, I hope you like smaller breasts and flat butts, and, by the way, this is not my real hair, these are fake eyelashes, and, my lips are not this pouty. You will see, just hang on, I will be back in about 15 minutes"... Ha, cracks me up to think about it...

Of course, I am all for self-improved looks, but, going the extreme does not make any sense to me; is that you? We should all strive to present the best of US, not some creation we dreamed up and attached for the night, that is just silly. If you are one of these people, I am not judging you, instead, very curious as to why you think that you have to go to that extent to make yourself into something which clearly defies reality. As I said, I understand wanting and needing to look your best, hell, I go to some trouble myself, but, I would never go to all the trouble of adding body parts or other such fluff, as, I want someone to want me for me, and, what they see is what they are gonna get anyway, so..............................

I also can relate to doing such things for fun, like if you want to create a fantasy for your guy or something, but, that is after he knows you for you, not when he first meets you, and, then finds out that you are not what he thought he had landed... Oh well, it is an individual right and option, which there certainly is availability of, so, I am just musing...

I have some hair attachments and such myself. I like to look hot and do go to some trouble to look that way, but, it is me they see and me they get, and, I would hope that they are what they seem to be as well. I have a few friends who are male and they are plastic people, meaning they have had everything done to maintain their looks throughout time, in fact one has been worked over so many times, he actually looks chiseled and plastic, and, damned if he isn't gorgeous, though it is not the kind of gorgeous which I am attracted to...

Oh, life is hilarious in so many respects, and, while we try not to poke fun at it, how can we not? There is just too much going down in the city... Love it, I just love it... Makes for some great thoughts and wisdom...

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